Florida Community of Mindfulness My Reflections/Recollections of Thay

Bowing in Gratitud

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 13:57:12 GMT

Dear Thay, I bow in gratitude for your physical and spiritual existence.

"Man is not our enemy

Our enemy is hatred, anger, ignorance and fear.”

Dear Thay

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 16:54:58 GMT

DEAR THAY

Dear Thay, Dear teacher:

You were not lost;

You were never found.

You continue on beautifully

in all of us, in me,

in all that ever was,

and all that ever will be.

I bow in loving gratitude,

for your light, your love,

your courage and determination;

for your gift of mindfulness,

of this precious moment,

of no birth, no death,

and no discrimination.

For your clear, flowing voice,

refreshing as a cool mountain stream.

For your slow, graceful movements,

your expressive gestures, your sweet smile.

For the lion's roar of your teachings.

For your fierce heart, beating for everyone.

For your fearless actions, born of love and stillness.

You will always be with me, dear Thay.

And I will always be with you.

Be Here Now

Tue, 15 Feb 2022 12:03:14 GMT

"I have arrived, I am home, in the here and the now, in the ultimate I dwell."

Thay's gathas continue to be a part of my wonderful, ordinary life. ♥️

His dharma body is everywhere.

Thank you beloved Thay, for showing us The Way so beautifully. You have given us everything, and held nothing back, just like the Buddha. "Smile", "Breathe", "Let go"

Moon and Forest

Fri, 11 Feb 2022 11:57:32 GMT

When the moon and forest are together, they create a marvelous and mysterious atmosphere, unlike any other experience. The silence is total, yet the moon and the forest are speaking to each other. They are no longer two, but become one. If the forest is taken away, the moon would not be. You would not be standing in the moonlit grove if the moon and forest ceased to be.

Mesmerized in the moment. (Paraphrased from Fragrant Palm Leaves by Thay)

Thay’s path

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 20:54:24 GMT

Dear brothers and sisters in Thay’s family: During the Vietnam War, in my early 20s, I first heard of Thich Nhat Han’s quiet courage and peaceful walking. Many years later, when I was looking for a spiritual path rooted in real life, the teachings of mindfulness reconnected me with Thay through his books and videos. His way of speaking, walking, and smiling made me able to believe him when he taught us that we are all interconnected, supported by and responsible for one another.

I was able to attend two retreats with Thay, in 2011 and 2013. During the second, I summoned up the courage to sit on stage with him during the Q &A, and ask him a question of the heart. I felt his silent attention to each person who asked a question, and saw how he let his answer rise up from the depth of his inner peace.

In the years that I’ve been walking on Thay’s path, my own understanding has deepened, and along with it, my awe and respect for what lies at the root of his teachings. At first, I was only capable of practicing mindfulness from the outside in. Little by little, i saw that Thay was giving us a way to touch Just This, in each moment of experience. He could do that because he lived from that depth of experience himself. Seeing that encouraged me to believe that I too could be truly alive in the here and now. Not just as a goal or an idea, but as a reality. “There is no way to peace; peace is the way.”

I feel so lucky to have met Thay and to have become part of his sangha family. I know that he is alive in us, and that gives me the desire to keep walking his path with you all.

Thay's Presence

Fri, 04 Feb 2022 21:39:06 GMT

I did not exactly meet Thây. I was in his presence at the opening of the Blue Cliff Monastery in NY. He and I were maybe ten feet apart - across a row of chairs. I looked at him, furrowing my brow and he looked at me in the same manner. I had not decided what to make of this shuffling brown-robed monk with his soft-spoken simple stories. I was impressed by the fact that he left the first ten rows open for children. I was puzzled by the frequent bells and how everyone, even people carrying heavy trays of food, just stopped, frozen. I was flummoxed by the slow walk in the forest - would we trample each other? We didn't - we flowed like a river. Thây walked with the children. At one point, he looked up and I did too. He seemed to be feeling what he was seeing. He invited us to feel the sky, the clouds - we were all one. And later, he offered us the gift of the three jewels - I could have taken transmission of vows or even just watched. Instead I told myself my young daughter needed me and I went home. Years later, when life became complicated, I found the simplicity of Thây's teachings the only thing that got through to me. Also, I found they were not so simple! There he had been - all along. The day after Thây left his body, I followed the Plum Village instructions on how to make a simple altar for him with candles, fruit, a flower - I chose a white chrysanthemum. I even had a cushion set out for him and one for me. I read his teachings, his poems, I watched videos of his talks and listened deeply to his words. I felt surrounded by so much love. I knew he was with me and always would be. Thây IS. It's that simple.

Thay-ku

Tue, 01 Feb 2022 13:43:44 GMT

to abide in the

original unborn mind -

happily, taught Thay

Gratitude

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 12:38:01 GMT

My lasting impression of being with Thay is his love for us, for all beings, for this life, for every small thing, and how he had such humility.

How lucky are we to have walked the earth in this time and place when such a man, such a bodhisattva, graced our world. How lucky to have received such beautiful, accessible, loving, and compassionate teachings from such a master as this, and to have been left a legacy of countless books, Dharma talks, monks and nuns, and sisters and brothers also committed to walking this path together.

"The tears I shed yesterday have become rain."

Thay is all around

Thu, 27 Jan 2022 20:46:05 GMT

Dear Thich Nhat Hanh, I miss you already.

I miss seeing your body alive peacefully, walking, sitting, face always smiling.

I miss watching you floating like a cloud, walking on this earth.

The miracle of mindfulness manifest.

Being in Community with brothers and sisters, who have learned to listen deeply to the sounds of the earth, of our ancestors, of our teachers, friends and family.

Being in Community with brothers and sisters who have learned to be alive in our bodies and aware in this present moment, help me to continue on the road.

Learning to dwell happily in this moment where sadness and joy are one, I bow ingratitude.

Thank you Thich Nhat Hanh for manifesting in this life time!

Walking peacefully, walking joyfully, smiling, Thay is within and all around.

Dedicated to Thich Nhat Hanh (by Anda Peterson)

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:58:06 GMT

Dedicated to Thich Nhat Hanh

Clouds,
like memories,
are weightless
yet gathered
grow heavy
cover the light,
and like the fog of old fears
tumble and build
one upon the other.

Clouds,
like steam
rising from Thich Nhat Hanh’s teacup
float out the window,
return as rain 
quench the thirst of tea leaves.
Thay teaches this:
clouds appear in teacups,
we drink moonlight,
and can see clearly
through fog.

Gratitude for Thay (posted for Salima Grannon)

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:54:12 GMT

I am very grateful to have experienced Thay as my root teacher. His simple practices and teachings have enabled me to live a peaceful and happy life with myself and with all beings. Thay’s presence is in me when I wake up in the morning as I smile and say the Morning Gatha, or washing the dishes, or going for a walk or saying ‘“good morning” to the young teenager sitting at the bus stop who has not responded to the greeting for weeks but finally looked up at me this morning and with a smile said, “good morning!” There was a sense of joy for both of us. I was happy that she was happy.

Thay’s teachings live on in all his children. We are so very fortunate to be one of Thay’s children in this lifetime.

A Buddha to the World

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:52:38 GMT

My heart cried when I read of Thay’s passing. I didn’t cry so much for me, but I cried for humanity. We are so fortunate that Thay continues to live in our teacher and in the sangha body, who have heard or read Thay’s words and found the wisdom in them. May Thay’s message reach all living beings so that they will realize awakening.

Thank you Thay

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 18:50:24 GMT

All of the causes and conditions that came together for me to intersect with Thich Nhat Hanh and his teachings are truly remarkable and I’m so grateful. While I never met him in person, I can’t help but feel that I waved to him from across the crowd of countless individuals whose lives he touched so deeply, and he saw me and waved back with a smile. I am forever changed.

Thay the Poet

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 17:37:00 GMT

During the Vietnam War, Thay was a political activist. Thay was a dangerous man.

Both major powers, communists, and capitalists recognized his impact. He stood against war, he was willing to die for peace. At this time, his poetry was being translated and published in the west. Here is a sample from that era.

https://plumvillage.org/articles/for-warmth-thays-poem-in-my-two-hands-betsy-roses-song/....

I thought then "why is this man hated?" Then I saw him speak, watched him move, and saw, really saw peace embodied in human form. Yes, peace in every step. Thay is the 'real deal.'

Thay

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 14:15:44 GMT

I never had the pleasure of meeting Thay in person. Yet I feel that I know him. First, the people that have met him radiate a certain "Thay" that comes from many seeds that Thay and the practice have nourished; Second, the Sangha has Thay's fingerprints all over it as the Sangha radiates compassion and wisdom to the world. Third, I know him through his many publications and talks. Such profound wisdom sprinkled with intense compassion. His presence will continue to flourish through the Sanga for well into the future.

Dear Thay, Dear Sangha

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 01:49:14 GMT

whenever I would go to Blue Cliff Monastery, or listen to talks from Plum Village, I would hear those gentle words uttered. Like many others, I first encountered Thay's teachings in a book. I forget who or when, but as a young man in my early 20s I was starting to finally feel the strain of the doubt in my Christian faith. One of my biggest issues was how a loving God could send a huge majority of the population to everlasting torment just because they never encountered the conditions to see and believe a certain faith. This seemed not like a compassionate or loving God, but more like a vengeful, spiteful toddler. It was blasphemy to think about it, but when I did, it was horrifying. Long story short, I eventually started to turn to Eastern religions, particularly Hinduism, as I heard that they acknowledged other faiths as legitimate manifestations of the Divine. But by chance, the pastor of my church heard of my dilemma and wanted to talk to me. Believe it or not, he became my first teacher of Buddhism, and of meditation! He taught me how to meditate and I took to it instantly. Around this time, I don't remember who or when, someone gave me a copy of "Living Buddha, Living Christ." I was immediately smitten with the gentle words of this Vietnamese monk whose name I had NO idea how to pronounce. (And interestingly, I never pronounced his name correctly for over 15 years until well into the next part of my story.)

Fast Forward. Years later, I was now in my early 30s and I was having another kind of crisis. I had gotten married and gone back to a semi-mystical kind of Christianity. My spouse had been fairly conservative theologically, so I had spent years suppressing my Buddhist urges and tiptoeing around the egg shells of her theology.

But now she had left me.

I wasn't sure how I was going to make a living. I was almost homeless and had no money and a huge child support payment for children I barely got to see. I felt completely alone and hopeless. I longed for death just about every day.

I started dating this French woman in NY city at the time, and I accidentally found a book on meditation in her bathroom. It was "Destructive Emotions." I was completely riddled with "Destructive Emotions." It seemed that was all I knew.

Reading the book, I thought of how I had started to find some happiness in my early 20s when I started practicing meditation. But I had never connected with other people in the practice. I remembered how my practice sputtered out without a community or teacher, but how difficult it had been to find them. Suddenly it dawned on me that now there was google! And Youtube! I started searching, and found more than one Sangha. I tried classes and sitting with a couple of them. By chance, I found Blue Cliff Monastery and it happened to be only about an HOUR DRIVE AWAY from where I was living. I remembered "Living Buddha Living Christ" and how powerful this man's teaching was.

Up until then I had always been drawn to Zen on one hand, Theravada on the other, and to some extent Tibetan Buddhism. Theravada and Tibetan felt too old-fashioned and superstitious. Zen (the Japanese kind I kept finding) felt a little dry and austere, and devoid of the new "metta" meditation I'd never been taught when studying Zen in my 20s. Suddenly, in Thay's teachings, I found an almost perfect blend of all of them. He was the first Zen teacher I ever encountered who actually taught from the Pali scriptures! He also did loving kindness, which I never saw Zen teachers teach. But he also didn't hammer on the necessity to take certain things literally, like rebirth and miraculous stories and supposed powers that had the tendency to strain credulity. If he told these stories, they were full of gentle humor, wit, and were about psychological truths in the present, not even implied as doctrines we had to swallow whole into our faith gullet. In short, I was home. When I was trying to move back to Florida to be near my children again after they moved down here, the abbot at Blue Cliff told me to look up this guy named "Fred Eppsteiner." So.... here I am.

When I heard Thay had passed, it was kind of a shock, but I wasn't really that sad. I thought "we had been expecting it a long time." "He's not really dead, he's just in the form of a..."(you know the rest)

I even joked around about his passing.

The next day, as I watched the ceremony and they bowed to his body, suddenly I started crying like a baby. He may not "truly be dead" as he would always said, but... I am truly sad, and I'm crying even now as I can hear his voice in my head, when he would speak as the cloud that turned into the rain: "My darling! I'm not really gone! I am still with you, in the cup of tea. In the ocean, in the rain. I'm still with you. I've just changed form."

You may still be with us, dear Thay, dear Sangha, but it still hurts. We miss you.

Even though I never met Thay, his teachings saved my life too. I hope one day his teachings will BE my life.

Perceptive Commemoration about Thay

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 00:53:44 GMT

Published on 23 January 2022

The most venerable Thich Nhat Hanh has passed away. What a great loss to this world — a world entangled in both past and future; a world that has almost no interest in dwelling in the present; a world that has forgotten the value of a smile; a world that has forgotten how to really be there when it brushes its teeth.For those who care about the Buddha’s teachings, Thich Nhat Hanh’s passing is an especially heavy loss. In this modern world, an ancient wisdom like Buddhism finds it so difficult to reach out to people that were born into cultures that have no notion of aniccā, duḥkha, anattā and nirvana. How can people today be encouraged, at the very least, to move closer to an appreciation of these ideas, let alone generate the wish to live by them?

Buddhism is perhaps the oldest and most systematic, scientific study of mind and matter ever. Yet it is constantly, almost ruthlessly dismissed as a ‘religion’, a ‘doctrine’ or at best ‘ancient Asian thought’. Even so, Thich Nhat Hanh’s determination to open the door to the Buddha’s teachings never faltered. He consistently made an enormous effort to make the world curious about Buddhadharma. And he succeeded. Hundreds of thousands of people have now not only heard of mindfulness, but they try to practise it. This is an amazing achievement, one that generally takes centuries to accomplish. Thich Nhat Hanh managed it in one short, tumultuous lifetime. As buddhists, we owe him a tremendous debt of gratitude.

Looking ahead, those of us who admire Thich Nhat Hanh and those who actively follow him, must remember that while he is best known for his ability to reach a wide audience, especially in his many books — for example, Being Peace, Peace is Every Step, How to Love, The Miracle of Mindfulness — he should never be discounted as just another new age guru. The simple fact that he was a monk for his entire life demonstrates that there was far more to his approach than merely “Smile”. From the time he first saw an image of the Buddha at the age of 7 or 8, Thich Nhat Hahn harboured a strong desire to be like him. At 16 he was ordained in the Tu Hieu Temple in Hue city in Vietnam, and chose to return to die there some seven decades later. If this approach does not demonstrate that his Buddhadharma has both great depth and substance, then nothing will. He shall be remembered by us all as a great victory banner of Dharma.

— Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse

Thay

Wed, 26 Jan 2022 00:11:21 GMT

Thay saved my life said Brian and I thought yes, he saved mine also

He saved me from a life of annoyances, and gave me acceptance

He saved me from a life of misbeliefs and blurred lens and gave me clarity

He saved me from a life of fixations and gave me fluidity

He saved me from a knotted body and mind and gave me a way to let go

He saved me from a wandering mind and brought me to the present moment

He saved me from a life of “ME” and gave me a glimpse of the vastness of the universe

He saved my life to water the seeds of happiness in others

Thay

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 23:57:44 GMT

Although never physically in the presence of Thay I was always struck by his presence through videos, particularly while watching him lead walking meditations. Worlds apart geographically, even on video I felt connection - his way of walking embodied total presence and I felt directly connected - his calm, peace and joy shown through in a visceral way. He conveyed the teachings of mindfulness, peace and non-violence without ever saying a word.

Thay

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 21:49:48 GMT

Friends,

A powerful recollection of Thay that eloquently portrays a more personal side of Thay that many are not aware of. It is the Thay that I met and interacted with in the 70's and 80's and I took great delight in listening to Father Dear's loving and insightful talk. https://www.democracynow.org/2022/1/25/father_john_dear_on_thich_nhat

Inviting Your Reflections

Tue, 25 Jan 2022 20:28:01 GMT

Inviting your reflections about Thay, how he has impacted your life, and/or how you aspire to be his continuation.